I think when I started this adventure, I thought I would have this whole community of support.  All my friends and family encouraged me to get a divorce, so I guess I just assumed that they would all be there for me when I started to take the steps forward.  Today, I discovered that when push comes to shove, you really can’t count on anyone.  I thought at the very least I could count on my mom, but, nope.  I am officially on my own.  I hope as this all unfolds I find some single friends who will standby me and understand what I’m going through, and be supportive!